Trafficking exist. Not in Sweden. In Germany, where prostitution is legal.

January 17, 2008 by swedishsexworker

As I told before, legalization not solve all problems in the sexwork. Rather make it worse.

Since I have studied Russian language, I can read huge information about sexslavery and trafficking in Russian massmedia.

It would be wrong to say that Russians do not care about sexslaves.

This harrowing story from Russian paper AiF , written by on Ukrainian woman who been sold as a real sexslave to Germany by Yugoslavian mafia…

She been tricked and violently coerced to ‘work’ in the illegal brothel Papillon in Kreuzberg, Berlin. She been kept behind locked door, beaten and raped every single day…She wasn’t alone there. There was many girls of different ethnic backgrounds among them German girls as well.
After couple months in slavery she learned some german words and start saying to clients ‘Please, help me out of here’ . They didn’t believe her and just laughed. But finally one of her clients ringed to police (anonymously !!!). All girls been released while pimps arrested and jailed. Papillon been shut down.

How it could happen’ in Germany? In country where prostitution is legalized and there are hundreds of thousands legal brothels? In the country where people is lawobedience and police is not corrupt?

Simply, the clients could not observe any difference between legal brothel or trafficked one in the country where prostitution is legal. ‘Papillon’ looked nice and clean outside and inside. All pimps pretended being guests there.

To all readers: Please READ before replying to my post.

January 16, 2008 by swedishsexworker

I noticed that most of people had never read ALL my post. This is sad. People from both sides – pro- and contras just expected some horrible stories which could feed their prejudices instead reading all posts on my blog.

Why shall I waste my time to post while no one bother to READ what I write?

How many times i must repeat that there have quit another prostitution culture here in Sweden?

How many times i must repeat that Swedish punters are nice and law-obedience guys? Now, after swedish law they has been more disciplinated than before. Because they are afraid.

I have no idea how sexwork looks in other countries .

I have never been working in any other country. I post only about Sweden.

Please READ it before you comment.

P.s. You dont like my CAPS, eh? I need the CAPS, because you didn’t see what I write.

Danish brothels practice age-discrimination. I hate brothels.

January 14, 2008 by swedishsexworker

So called ‘clinics’ in Denmark don’t employ any woman who’s older than 30.

Here I see another bad side of decriminalized prostitution – age-based selectivity .

Also prices in Denmark are much lower than in Sweden.

I can guess it is the same discrimination in all brothels all over the world. Notice also that those poor women must pay 30-50% of their small wages to the brothel owner.

I’m so lucky to be 150% Independent sexworker.

Brothel is another pimping. I hate brothels.

Christian Science Monitor got incorrect information about sexwork in Sweden

January 11, 2008 by swedishsexworker

Have read in SCM article Britain eyes Swedish law on sex workers by Mark Rice-Oxley |and Karin Rives
and have found lots of wrong information.(Quote)-

“But sex workers argue that the law has made life more dangerous and precarious for them. “

Who “sex workers” ? Those lies makes me very p*ssed off any time I read it.

Myself is sexworker with 16 years experience of sexwork in Sweden and I say as before – the law has NOT made my work neither more dangerous nor precarious than before .

Once Again -

a. I have never been a street-walker. Before Internet-era I used to advertise services in the porn-mags and sometimes even in the common swedish news-papers .

Street-scene maked only 5% of all prostitution in Sweden before the law. Now it’s about 1 %, i suppose.

Picking up clients on the street was dangerous and cheap even BEFORE swedish anti-johns law.

b. The same as me, other 95% advertised on the pornmags before Internet era and before 1999. Why people is so fixed only on the street-scene, despite it makes only 4-5% of all prostitution in Sweden? Because streetwalkers are visible.

 

 

c. I have never seen any ‘pimp’ in my life, neither before nor after swedish law. I’m very curious what do they look like? Do they have sharp claws , horns and teeths ? I have seen them only in american and french movies.

There is different prostitution-culture here in Sweden.

 

Another quote from CSM: “Swedish prostitutes say that rather than reducing prostitution it has merely driven it underground….”

This is a real crap talk. What they mean “underground”? Is it “underground” to work 150% INDEPENDENTLY (without any other’ help) advertising servisex via Internet as I do ?

Is it “dangerous underground” fussily selecting and meeting clients at the clean and safety 5 stars hotels (which the clients pay for) or at clients’ home?

90% of the Swedish/Scandinavian clients are law-obedience men who treat women with respect.

Other 10% maybe not so nice, but they still lawfearing and would be afraid to make some harm to any prostitute.

I have never met some violent client in Sweden . The same men who probably was/are violent toward “own” wifes or girl-friends behave respectfully towards a prostitute.

Is it “dangerous underground” when I (Myself) dominate in my sexwork ? I.e. ME and only me who decide with whom, what kind of sex, when and where we will meet??

For example, I refuse anal-sex and I had never done it.

I dislike doggy style and I refuse to do it because I like to hold on eye-contact during sex. Because I keep better control over my sex-work when I do it in my way.

No one in the whole world can force me to do that what i dont want to do.

Is it “dangerous underground” when me, 45-old lady, meets up with younger good looking guys , who kiss and hug me while paying me for that ?

Many other prostitutes got paranoid and refuse to kiss the johns . But I like kisses (and hugs). Btw, one (female) friend of mine who’s a doctor said me that kissing is not a way to trasport STD.

After this swedish law the clients has become more obedient and disciplinated. Simply, because they’re afraid . They’re afraid that sexworker can report to police if client would behave incorrect towards her .

All other prostitution-activists in Sweden have not so much experinece in sexwork as myself. Isabella Lund is only 3-4 years in this job and she not aware about sexwork before 1999. But I have 16 years experience and i can tell them that it was NOT better to be a prostitute in Sweden before 1999.

For example,

1. some clients was not discreet before 1999. Some of them used to give my tel.number and home adress to other men Without my permission to do that. Now they would never behave in that way. Now they keep in secrecy their bying of sex !

2. One client cames too fast and start yelling that he’s “not satisfied” and wanted money back or else he threated me that he can go out and tell to all my neighbours and police that i am a “whore”. It wasn’t my fault that he came too fast. But I was very afraid that he can really compromise me and I did gave him back his money. Only to keep him quiet.

Can anyone imagine the same situation today?

It would be mad if some swedish punter could go out loudly boasts/braging/complaining of their happy or unhappy sex-buying in Sweden 2008 !!

Yes, Now they do it (anonymously) on the Internet. We have 2 websites where the johns chat with sexworkers, complain or praise/recommend some escorts which they meet. But swedish clients do it very carefully and discreetly. Admin of this site said:
“Every Sex Worker has a right to claim posts removed about her/him -self. Respect the privacy of Sex Worker.”

The webservers of those sexwork-sites located in other country, so swedish authorities can not shut it down.

 

Nasty and rude clients was not so many, about 10 % .Most of Swedish/Scandinavian men behave nice and respectfully towards prostitutes.

And I had never in my life met some violent client in Sweden. Neither before nor after swedish law.

An opposite, it is more likely to be a victim of violence in the common ( non-prostitute) relationship.

It is more likely to be raped in the “normal” (non-prostitute) relationship. Why ? Dunno.

 

So Please “Swedish sexworkers”, stop complaining and self-pity! This law protect us against nasty clients ! We are still working, prostitution is still going on in Sweden, the prices goes up. Swedish sexworkers have nothing to complain about.

 

 

p.s. I have never workerd as a prostitute in any other country. All what I wrote above is only about sexwork in Sweden.

I suppose, sex-work looks different in other countries.

 

BlogGuest Susan L. (USA) : “I was a trafficked woman in Tokyo”.

December 21, 2007 by swedishsexworker
Susan L., sexworker från Las Vegas, in her own words:
“…I myself entered Japan on an “entertainer’s” visa (as they’ve put it below). As a matter of fact, by most of the US admin’s definitions, I was a trafficked woman in Tokyo. Hmmm… funny thing is, I never felt trafficked!
As a matter of fact, I, like many of the other women I worked with, made incredible money, learned Japanese, and had a great time while in Japan.
I worked with women from the US, Australia, Russia, the Philippines, South Africa, England, Ireland, Germany, China, Korea, Kenya, Brazil, New Zealand, Vietnam, Czech Republic, Greece, Italy, Sweden, Denmark, Argentina, Hungary, Romania, and Japan.
I spent a total of one year there, for three months per time, four times, over three years.
The cash I sent home was amazing, and I still spent money like water while I was there (some of the best shopping in the world is in Tokyo’s 8-12-story shopping malls!). The agency I went through really looked out for us, set us up in an apartment, and were there for us should we have needed anything.
I also had been able to visit many hostess clubs staffed with Filipina women, as they were staffed and managed by a man I was madly in love with at the time (a very sexy Japanese computer geek).
I spent a lot of time speaking with several of the women, hearing about their lives back home, and how they liked life in Japan. I made friends with a few, and learned how astronomical the money they earned while in Japan was compared to anything they could earn back home.
As a matter of fact, most of them earned much more as hostesses than I did as a stripper.
What a fascinating group of women! One of the clubs I wish I had been able to spend more time in was a club staffed with gorgeous transvestites from the Philippines.
I remember one woman in particular, of whom I still have tons of photos. She was amazingly beautiful, articulate, formally educated, and spoke several languages. She loved her job at the club, and she had been saving up money to travel. I had a crush (but she only liked boys-darn!).
I am sad to think that it will be very difficult, if not impossible, for these women to renew their visas and continue working as they do.
There were other clubs in Japan one could work for, and often their employee-employer relationships weren’t the friendliest. I heard some really horrible stories of a**-hole bosses who were very unkind and rude to the women who worked for them. And yes, they tried to fine them when they left the clubs to find better ones to work for. They would use manipulation and scare-tactics to try and discourage women from leaving. There were even stories of missing passports, and threats of deportation.
I am absolutely certain situations like the one described below exist. They exist in every country- I know of a few stories that make my toes curl.
The problem is that by trying (unsuccessfully) to annihilate the sex industry altogether, and making it difficult for women to gain at least semi-legitimate access to the jobs we had, they will only push this situation described below even further underground.
Why can’t these people see that? Instead of sending women like myself and the ones I worked with on the run, they should realize what a wealth of information we can be in terms of what is going on in the “underground” sectors. Make allies instead of enemies of us.
If they were really interested in addressing trafficking- true trafficking (and not just eliminating “my kind” from the planet)- they would have more sensible policies than they do.
I therefore find it very difficult to believe these people who profess to have an interest in ending trafficking are very serious about it. It would seem they are much more interested in controlling women and eliminating our willingness and ability to participate in the sex industry.
My story is a far cry from those who are truly trafficked. To name me trafficked is a tragic insult to the women who are really suffering.
While enormous resources are wasted on women like myself and my Filippina friends, women like the ones described below are slipping through the cracks.
XOXO Susan “

International Union for Sex Workers (IUSW) + other foreign activists say the same as me: Hysteria over sex trafficking = Moral Panic

December 1, 2007 by swedishsexworker

Unfortunately, Swedish sexwork-activists support trafficking-paranoia while using it for own purpose,

But IUSW and all other (non-swedish) sexwork organisations & activists say the same as me:

” When feminism contributes to and promotes the moral panic about ‘trafficking’ it makes itself complicit in the increase of states’ border control, restrictions to migration, worsening migrants’ dependency, police raids in working places and deportations….”

What said  other people:
Prostitution Panic
– The article below written by Professor Ronald Weitzer , was published in American Sexuality Magazine in 2006 (please click on the link above)

The growing hysteria over sex trafficking

We are in the midst of a growing, well organized campaign against the sex industry in the United States and abroad. The campaign is being led by a coalition of strange bedfellows on the left and right. Certain feminist organizations (e.g., Coalition Against Trafficking in Women, Equality Now) have aligned with evangelical and other rightwing organizations (Focus on the Family, National Association of Evangelicals, Catholic Bishops Conference) in an unprecedented war against prostitution, under the guise of fighting international sex trafficking.

The antiprostitution crusade has all the earmarks of a moral panic in terms of the various evils that are being associated with prostitution. The main claims are that (1) prostitution and sex trafficking are proliferating around the world, now at “epidemic” levels, (2) virtually everyone working in the sex industry has been coerced into it, (3) violence and exploitation are omnipresent in prostitution, (4) customers and traffickers are the personification of evil, and (5) legalization would only make the situation worse by giving the state’s blessing to a wicked institution and increasing trafficking into destinations where prostitution is legal.

Some of these claims are nothing more than articles of faith, but others are derived from “studies” conducted by a few prominent antiprostitution feminists. My review of these studies identified numerous violations of the canons of sound social science research, so serious that we can have absolutely no confidence in their arguments or conclusions (see Ronald Weitzer, “Flawed Theory and Method in Studies of Prostitution,” Violence Against Women 11, 2005). Prostitution is much more complex and diverse, both structurally and experientially, than the caricature proffered by antiprostitution authors and activists. Although we must be careful not to romanticize prostitution, research finds that many indoor workers (call girls, escort agency workers) have made conscious decisions to enter the trade, reject the notion that they are oppressed and exploited victims, are at much less risk of abuse than street prostitutes, and do not feel degraded or dehumanized by their work. With respect to legalization, some excellent research—on Australia, Nevada, and The Netherlands—shows that, under the right conditions, legal prostitution can be organized in a way that greatly increases workers’ safety and job satisfaction.

Ideologically Tainted Government Policy

The antiprostitution crusade has been tremendously successful in influencing policy and legislation over the past five years. The “findings” of the flawed studies and the claims of antiprostitution groups have been seized upon by the Bush administration and its Congressional allies to justify a major crackdown on the sex industry. This is yet another example of how ideology has trumped science in the Bush administration, but in this case the scientific community has been largely silent. Let me outline just a few of the ways in which the ideology of leading antiprostitution forces has been embraced by the government.

Exhibit A is a State Department factsheet, The Link Between Prostitution and Sex Trafficking, which proclaims: “Prostitution is inherently harmful. Few activities are as brutal and damaging to people as prostitution.” “Prostitution leaves women and children physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually devastated.” “Prostitution is not the oldest profession, but the oldest form of oppression.” These are hardly “facts” according to any impartial reading of the best social science research on prostitution.

Exhibit B is the End Demand for Sex Trafficking Act of 2005, a bill currently before the House and Senate Judiciary Committees (HR 2012 and S 397). Like the State Department’s factsheet, the bill is unequivocal in its negative portrayal of sex for sale: By fiat, it defines anyone who engages in sex for money as a “victim.” Similarly dubious is the sex trade’s imputed effect on society: “Commercial sexual activities have a devastating impact on society. The sex trade has a dehumanizing effect on all involved.” The bill condemns legal prostitution because it “fuels” trafficking: Where prostitution is tolerated, there is “nearly always an increase in the number of women and children trafficked into commercial sexual activities.” This bill covers much more than sex trafficking. Its objective is to “combat commercial sexual activities,” which are defined as “any sex act on account of which anything of value is given to, or received by, any person.” This definition appears to be broad enough to include legal pornography, whose actors get paid for sex acts, as well as legal brothel prostitution in Nevada. One wonders, also, if lap dancing qualifies as a sex act prohibited under the bill.

The End Demand bill provides $45 million over the next three years in grants to organizations and state governments to wage war on commercial sexual activity within the United States. Two-thirds of the allocation goes to law enforcement, and one-third is devoted to support services for victims. The attorney general will determine which organizations receive funding, but the bill specifically mentions programs designed to increase arrests of customers and “exploiters,” shaming customers (e.g., posting their names on websites or billboards), and “john schools,” where arrested customers undergo a day of lectures about the horrors of prostitution.

By cleverly naming the bill an antitrafficking measure, sponsors apparently hope to spin the legislation in a way that might otherwise generate opposition from civil rights groups. There has been practically no opposition to the End Demand bill so far, despite the fact that a sizeable number of Americans favor legalizing prostitution­40 percent in one national poll and 45 percent in another­and despite the growing market for pornography.

Exhibit C: Whereas the End Demand bill is largely focused on the domestic sex industry, the Bush administration has been working at the international level to change other nation’s policies on both trafficking and prostitution. Nations that have a poor record in curbing trafficking are subject to formal shaming in the State Department’s annual trafficking reports, and are also subject to economic sanctions under the Trafficking Victims Protection Act of 2000.

The U.S. government has spent about $300 million in the fight against trafficking in the past four years, but the funds come with strings attached. To be eligible for U.S. government funding, any foreign NGO working on the trafficking front must now declare its opposition to legal, state regulated prostitution, and the AIDS funding law of 2003 requires that any organization working to fight AIDS must “have a policy explicitly opposing prostitution and sex trafficking” if it wishes to receive such funding.

It is claimed that legal prostitution “fuels” trafficking, yet no evidence is provided to show that legal prostitution causes or even contributes significantly to sex trafficking. The State Department itself provides some evidence that contradicts the alleged link between prostitution and sex trafficking: Its 2005 trafficking report on The Netherlands, where prostitution is legal, states that the government “fully complies with minimum standards for the elimination of trafficking” and that the Dutch police report a “decrease in trafficking in the legal sector.” Apparently, legal prostitution is not necessarily a magnet for sex trafficking, but may instead help to reduce it via greater government oversight of the legal sector.

The U.S. Government’s position on prostitution contrasts sharply with that of several other nations—Australia, Britain, Canada, New Zealand, etc.—which have recently either legalized some form of indoor prostitution (such as brothels) or are investigating alternatives to blanket prohibition. These governments appear to reject the notion that prostitution is inherently evil and instead have explored ways to regulate it, guided by the principle of harm reduction. This approach has also been embraced in Nevada, where legal brothels have existed for the past 35 years.

None of this is to suggest that sex trafficking is a myth. It does indeed occur and stiff punishment is warranted for traffickers who deceive, kidnap, and force people into the sex trade. Yet public policy is being driven by unsubstantiated allegations of an epidemic of trafficking throughout the world, buttressed by anecdotal horror stories. (Over the past five years, government figures on the number of victims internationally have fluctuated between 600,000 and 4 million, yet no evidence has been provided to support any of the figures.)

The claims outlined above are especially questionable in light of who the key claims-makers are—moral crusaders and a conservative administration, both of whom have a vested interest in turning the screws on the sex industry. What we have is an epidemic of shocking claims that are either impossible to substantiate or contradicted by the available evidence.


Swedish sexwork activist Isabella Lund demonize ALL foreign sexworkers as a “trafficking victims”

November 30, 2007 by swedishsexworker

Swedish activist Isabella Lund slander all foreign sexworkers, who work in Sweden accusing all of them being a “trafficking victims” and agitate all swedish punters for boycott them. Because of her racist propaganda many of swedish sexworkers who have non-swedish roots lost most of their clients .

It’s enough to speak swedish with slight foreign accent or not look enough ‘Nordisch’ to be suspected being a “sexslave”.

Read Here. in Swedish.

Remarcable enough she NOT DARES to write the same xenophobic crap in English .

The English part of her blog looks very nice and complitely different …

She demonize foreign sexworkers for two reasons -

1.to deflect attention from the swedish sexworkers (which has been demonized by swedish massmedia as well)

2. Isabella herself is around 50 and she’s afraid of foreign competition.

This shameful racist campaign must be stopped immediately.

Prostitute or photomodel = the same bodywork but different society status. Why?

November 25, 2007 by swedishsexworker

model.jpgWoman on the picture to the left is not prostitute.

She is a good girl i.e. photomodel. We confront with this kind of pictures every day.

But we can see very similar pictures on thousands of prostitututes’ advertising sites.
Both prostitutes and models use their body as tools for making money.Nothing wrong with that.
The same job. But why different society status?

Why children of photomodels are very proud of their mums, but prostitues’ children would be very ashamed to admit in the scool ”my mum work as a whore’ ?

Notice even, that sexwork-industry is much less age/looks/disability/weight discriminating than model-industry.

Have you ever seen any photomodel older than 35 ?

Have you ever seen any model with ugly face, wrincles, disability or extreme overweight?

But in the sexwork you can see  any kind of women’ appearance, looks, ages, weights and any (dis)abilities

Why one part of body-industry which practice so much age/look/weight/ability discrimination is so accepted and popularized in our society but not another one?

Why prostitution, another part of the same body-industry, which is much less discriminating, is so stigmatized as a shameful and disgraceful thing?

I have nothing against photomodels, just wondering …

Sweden.se spread lies and moral panic about ‘trafficking’ in Sweden

November 18, 2007 by swedishsexworker

I posted 3 comments on sweden.se

1. Kajsa Claude wrote:
”In Sweden, around 400-600 women a year are forced into the sex trade as victims of human trafficking.” ?

This is mad lies . Where do you get such a huge number? Have you seen at least one ‘trafficking victim’? This is similar paranoia as rumour about Hundreds of Ritual Baby Murders in Sweden

All population in Sweden about 9 millions residents. After all there is very few prostitutes in Sweden. Checking all swedish prostitution-advertising sites I estimate that 500-600 women is a number of ALL prostitutes in whole Sweden.

Even wordsexguide’s punters complaine of lack of prostitutes in Sweden.

One thing’s for sure : you define all independent (as myself) sexworkers in Sweden as a ‘trafficking victims’.

 

2. Foreign and Immigrant sexworkers has been stereotyped and demonized in Sweden as ’sex slaves’. Sadly enough, swedish born sexworkers use those racist lies for own purpose:

a. deflect attention from themselves

b. fearing competition of the foreign sexworkers.

 

 

3. Isabella Lund wrote: ”But there are no facts at all that can show that our laws about prostitution in Sweden have been effective against trafficking.”

There are NO FACTS at all about trafficking in Sweden. There are only rumours and myths origin from the swedish yellow press.
Give me facts not propaganda .

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Bad sides of legalization of sexwork: huge competition, low prices, mobbing between sexworkers

November 12, 2007 by swedishsexworker

Pros.scene in Germany looks bad. This is a result of legalization.