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Comment on Bad sides of legalization of sexwork: huge competition, low prices, mobbing between sexworkers by swedishsexworker

swedishsexworker — Thu, 15 May 2008 16:14:57 +0000

Dear ‘client’,
Sweden is not Denmark.
Happily - we have less age-discrimination and more gender equality here in Sweden than in any other country.
Sexindustry is just a mirror of women-rights situation in any country. The more women are opressed in some country the more they’re abused and discriminated in the sex-industry.

“”You not only charge one of the highest fee in any service but you do lie and “cheat” in any way possible about your services.’”

I never lie about my age or services.

“”Now, if you choose to offer any kind of service, you should accept being rated and compared on any level.”"

Hey, you obviously mixed up services with appearance. Service is service - appearance is appearance.
When you rated services of some (good or bad) hairdresser or naprapat you don’t care about her age/weight/breast-size. You just like or dislike her good or bad service.
If you consider sexwork as any other labour then must be the same rules as in any other labour.

Of course, real cheaters must be exposed. REAL cheaters i mean, for example those sexworkers who promised ‘full service’ but then she left the room after 5 minutes, as soon she took money or any other bad service.

But “”comparison on any level”", when the clients (who are often old fat and ugly themselves) depict ages or parts of women’ bodies in very offending vocabulary on some sexguide.forum is absolutely disgusting. and i’m happy that we have not so much those kinds of forum in Sweden.
That’s why I love swedish antijohns law.

Secondly - people have DIFFERENT TASTEs. What is ugly in your eyes can be very sexy and attractive in another’ eyes. I know it from my own experience. Some of people i met like my face and body and wish to see me again, but some probably didnt.. And i accept it.

“” .. “ads” like Tall fantastic looking, model material, 21 years old and offering all sort of services, but when it comes down to it, “you” are Little, chubby, model material “”

Many clients love little and curvy Dolly Parton-like women !

“”….. and your looks for that matter should be rated as any other business that are offering a service somebody might pay for..”"

“”…as Any other business ?”"
When you book any other service, hairdresser or massageist, you’ll never expect her/him to be a model material.

Either you accept sexwork as an any other service work or not. ?

Again, prostitute is a living human being, not a “” material”".

If u not trust in advertising then you can pick up your material directly on the street or in some brothel..

Or Why not buy any rubber doll instead?

“”… wasted Milf´s maybe, 35 years …”"
if 35 y.o. is a milf (mother) for you, than you must be at least 10-12 years old little boy !!

“”‘If you cant live with that …… get out of the business.’”"

Why you suggest me what shall i do? My life is not your business.
I have enough clients, most of them young and good looking guys.

If this truth hurts you please get out of this blog.

Comment on Bad sides of legalization of sexwork: huge competition, low prices, mobbing between sexworkers by client

client — Mon, 12 May 2008 14:21:12 +0000

Dear swedishsexworker
I find your blog interesting but I do disagree with you on many issues.
First of all, on your comments that compareson is bad.
Ofcouse you and your services should be up for public compareson on any way. You not only charge one of the highest fee in any service but you do lie and “cheat” in any way possible about your services.
Now … I said “You” and its properly not all as 100%, but most likely 95% of “you”.
You can claim anything in your “ads” like Tall fantastic looking, model material, 21 years old and offering all sort of services, but when it comes down to it, “you” are Little, chubby, model material for wasted Milf´s maybe, 35 years and not offering much …. but at that time you are already in the room or you have maybe already got the money.
Now, if you choose to offer any kind of service, you should accept being rated and compared on any level.
However, I agree that “real name” and home address is nobody´s elses business and should be kept away, but the service it self and your looks for that matter should be rated as any other business that are offering a service somebody might pay for.
If you cant live with that …… get out of the business.

Comment on Racism and prejudices towards “foreign” sexworkers in Sweden. by swedishsexworker

swedishsexworker — Fri, 25 Apr 2008 12:40:26 +0000

ohyes, it’s very lucrative business selling 60-90-y.old sexslaves. :-(((

Comment on Prostitute or photomodel = the same bodywork but different society status. Why? by Runa

Runa — Sun, 16 Mar 2008 20:01:14 +0000

Ok. I understood. You mean topmodels and photomodels who work in model-agecies.

Comment on Bad sides of legalization of sexwork: huge competition, low prices, mobbing between sexworkers by yo moma

yo moma — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 23:49:02 +0000

Comment on Prostitute or photomodel = the same bodywork but different society status. Why? by swedishsexworker

swedishsexworker — Tue, 04 Mar 2008 13:02:55 +0000

Runa, not only in Russia. All over the world models or ex-models earn money as a prostitutes. The ine difference, in the west countries they do it in much more sofisticated and discreet way. For example, they never looking for customers in the bars or hotels.
They advertise in many newspapers and on the internet. There are many eskort-agencies in the west countries where former/ or active models advertice their sexservices.

It doesnt matter do they take more or less money than ‘common’ prostitutes. Prostitutes are prostitutes regardless how much or how little they earn.

I wish ALL prostitutes have the same high price as the models.
Because-
we are selling only sex not our bodies, not faces, not ages.

I’m stronly against hyerarchy between the sexworkers.

Comment on Prostitute or photomodel = the same bodywork but different society status. Why? by Runa

Runa — Mon, 03 Mar 2008 17:11:54 +0000

What about Russia? Photomodels in Russia who works in model business works like prostitutes. Model agencies propose sex with clients to them. And the majority of girls are agree. Photomodels-prostitutes make more money then usual prostitutes.
Russian sites of acquaintance are full of women who propose sex by money.
And foreign men - from the West Europe, the North Europe, from the USA, etc… come to Moscow for a business trip but it is and sex tourism for them!!!
Yes. Your fathers from Scotland, UK, Denmark, Germany, France, Italy, Filand, etc…. have families but they come to Russia and have sex with prostitutes from sites of acquaintance.
They come to bars, restaurants. (for example, American Bar in Moscow) And there foreign men meet russian women for sex. In American bar even assistans are prostitutes!

Comment on Trafficking exist. Not in Sweden. In Germany, where prostitution is legal. by swedishsexworker

swedishsexworker — Sun, 24 Feb 2008 14:23:17 +0000

Janna,
De som gått och går på gatan är en liten minoritet. Jag skulle tro, typ
1-2%. De flesta av gatuprostituerade är missbrukare och därför de är ointresserade av något annat än droger och snabba pengar till sitt missbruk.
Att ta den här lilla minoriteten som representativ för alla prostituerade är fördomsfullt. Varför fokuseras just på den lilla gruppen mer än på den stora (osynliga) majoriteten av prostituerade? Just därför att den stora majoriteten är OSYNLIG.

Den där lilla minoriteten lever farligare än alla andra prostituerade.
Men det är inte egentligen pga prostitution utan pga deras missbruk som gatuprostituerade i det skriande behovet av pengar tappar de kontrollen och går med vem som helst som lovar att betala.

SANS och andra aktivister har fel när de säger att sexköpslagen har gjort gatuprostitutionen farligare än förr.
Att plocka kunderna på gatan var lika farligt före sexköpslagen.
Glöm inte att Catrine da Costa mördades på 80-talet, lång före sexköpslagen.

Om du helt frivilligt gick in i prostitution och har farit illa av den , varför inte sluta prostituera dig på en gång?
Antingen var du i ett stort behov av pengar (då är det inte direkt frivilligt), eller så ljuger du om våldet . Att våld förekommer mycket oftare UTANFÖR prostitutionen håller jag med om, men vi pratar ju nu om prostitutionen.

Du skriver om din erfarenhet medan jag skriver om mina erfarenheter. Jag skriver bara om mitt liv.
Jag har mailkontakt med många andra prostituerade i Sverige, både svenska och de med utländsk härkomst, som bott många år i Sverige. Ingen av dem har skrivit och påtalat att de har blivit utsatta för våld just i Sverige, av svenska män.

Den sämsta erfarenhet som jag varit med om, inträffade FÖRE sexköpslagen, när en kund började skricka och kräva pengarna tillbaka för att han kommit för snabbt och var missnöjd.
Han hotade gå ut och berätta för alla grannar och polisen om min verksamhet. För att få honom lugn var jag tvungen att ge honom hans pengar. Det är det värsta som jag varit med om .

Det är därför jag är för sexköpslagen, för dagens svenska kunder skulle aldrig våga gå ut och basunera ut att ‘jag-betalade-henne-men-jag-är-inte-nöjd’. Nu håller de käften och är mer disciplinerade än före sexköpslagen.

Hade jag prostituerat mig i andra länder eller skulle jag ta någon icke-västerländsk utlänning i Sverige som kund, då skulle även jag utsätta mig för fara eller våld. Men jag väljer noggrant mina kunder för att kunna känna mig trygg.

Comment on Trafficking exist. Not in Sweden. In Germany, where prostitution is legal. by janna

janna — Sun, 24 Feb 2008 11:57:06 +0000

Hej! Jag har inte heller gått på gatan men de som gör det, jag tror inte de skriver bloggar och talar om hur det är, tror du?

Jag gick in i prostitution frivilligt men om jag kan säga att jag aldrig varit med om jobbiga saker, då skulle det vara lögn. Då menar jag våld utom och inom prostitution. Jag tror inte det finns någon som inte har några dåliga erfarenheter. Speciellt inte efter så lång tid. Men om du vill se det så OK för mig

Comment on To all readers: Please READ before replying to my post. by Josef Boberg

Josef Boberg — Tue, 12 Feb 2008 13:12:21 +0000

http://josefboberg.wordpress.com/2007/12/22/loneslaveriarbetslagen